How could a team that was, at one time, 8-3 in the NFL not make it to the playoffs? After the stories that came out the past few days, it’s obvious why the New York Jets are at home instead of participating in the post season this year.
The swan dive they took at season’s end had less to do with the strategy of the game than the unity of the members of the team. Football, and every other true team sport, is different from individual sports that have a team concept such as (and I mean this more on high school and college levels) wrestling, tennis, golf and swimming, in that everybody on the team has the same record. In those other sports, if someone were to ask a team member, “What’s your record?” they’d probably respond with, “Do you mean my individual record or the team’s overall record?”Â
In wrestling, you can pin every opponent you face, but your team might not have won a match. Ditto for tennis, golf and swimming as far as capturing individual titles. Just like you might have finished last in every race in which you swam, but your team might very well be undefeated.
I recall a story when the United States’ Davis Cup captain was, I believe, Tom Gullikson. He had a rule that the night before the first “tie” which is how matches are referred to in Davis Cup play, there was a mandatory dinner everyone on the team was to attend. Andre Agassi told Captain T something to the effect that he had a specific routine when he prepared for a match and one part of it was that the night before he was to play, he always ate with the same people. It’s been a while since I heard the story, but I think I remember his dinner party consisted of his brother, Phillip, Nick Bollettieri and his agent, Bill Shelton.
My first reaction to this was shock.  Was this guy so clueless (or selfish) regarding the team concept that he couldn’t have dinner one night with his fellow teammates? Then, a thought struck me - the only way Andre Agassi could help his team with the Davis Cup was if he won his tie. To make an absurd analogy, the U.S. could have picked me to play. I would have been at every meeting (early) and would have attended every function Tom Gullikson and the Davis Cup people requested. Then, I would have gone out, lost 6-0, 6-0 but cheered like mad for the other guys on the team. No one would have been a better, more supportive teammate. But unless we won every other tie (besides my two singles), we’d have lost. In that regard, individual sports and team sports differ drastically.
On a team, everybody’s record is identical: it’s how many wins does the team have and how many losses does it have. If, in the opening game of the year, the offense plays awful, but the defense shuts out the opponent, forces a fumble on the opponents’ one-yard line and the place kicker comes in after three unsuccessful attempts by the offense at getting the ball into the end zone and kicks an 18-yard field goal to win 3-0, the team’s record is 1-0. The offense’s record is 1-0, the defense’s record is 1-0, the guys on the special teams, 1-0 - heck, even the guys who didn’t play are 1-0.
When the end of the year comes around, and the team has done a complete 180 degree turn from the beginning - and a player is quoted as saying it was the quarterback’s fault, that he was aloof and distant, you can be certain that the same player resented that quarterback when the team was 8-3. He was just waiting in the weeds. And to come out anonymously! (Please see my 11/15/07 blog on having a problem with someone and how to solve it).Â
Football is no place for cowards. It’s too violent a game. It’s mano a mano, if I have to smash you in the face (or take a smash in the face from you), in order for us to win, let’s get it on. Complaining anonymously about somebody is more for one of the contestants who didn’t win the sixth grade spell-a-thon, claiming the winner got all easy words, not for a professional football player. In football you always hear the saying, “He’s the kind of guy I’d want to have in a foxhole with me.” And although comparing football (a game in which, when it’s over, the combatants usually exchange handshakes and, more than occasionally nowadays, hugs -mainly because they realize and appreciate how difficult it was for the other guy) to war (where the team’s goal is much more “final”) is stretching it far beyond reality, but there is still no room for anonymous sources in either encounter.
They’re called traitors in the armed forces. Yet, they’re gladly welcomed by media in the sports world - but they’re still considered traitors by those with whom they share a uniform.  And when it comes out after the season is over, when nothing good can come of it, it’s also called disloyalty. If there’s one trait any player can have, even if he has no innate skill or ability at all, it’s the decency to be loyal to the teams’ cause and its members.
The author of this quote I saw was listed as unknown, which is not the same as anonymous, but it rings true on teams that win:
“If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn’t follow. I’d be at the bottom to catch them when they fell.”Â