Wow! There’s a real news flash. If someone’s larger than life, it would stand to reason people would be captivated by them. I’ve had the good fortune to meet or know a few throughout the years and it is some experience observing these “wonders of the human race” because, although you’ll often hear, “They’re just like you and me,” believe me, they’re not.
When you’re at the early impressionable age, it may be the starting quarterback on the local high school’s undefeated football team who is larger than life to you. But I’m talking about the real, honest-to-goodness national and world icons, the ones who make the A-1 stories on the big-time papers.Â
In my lifetime (so far), I don’t even attempt to make it sound like I’m exactly rubbing elbows with the elite of society on a daily basis, but I will mention a few people I’ve known (or maybe just casually met) who are in that category. Often, people feel that these folks are controversial, but I worked at the University of Tennessee for seven years and don’t feel that Pat Summitt is controversial in any way, shape or form.
What intrigues me about Pat is she is at the top of her field (the true top - don’t think I don’t know there’s a pun there, but it’s so trite, I’ll pass - as she’s won more games than any other basketball coach ), yet has the ability to really “let her hair down” in social settings. She doesn’t mind being the butt of a joke (well-intended, not mean) and is totally at ease with any type of crowd, eschewing the center of attention if the gathering is informal. She could always be the center of attention, but unless it’s a function where she’s the featured speaker, she’d just as soon shun the spotlight.
At UT, the Lady Vols practiced from 12:30-3:30 and the men from 3:30-6:30.  In my seven years, there was never a time when she was on the floor one second past 3:30, even if they were forced to start late and weren’t done. She’d call one of her managers over and ask her to see if she could find another gym on campus or close by, so they could finish. That being said, no one ever dared step foot on the floor if they were practicing and it was before 3:30. If they did, it was the last time they ever did.Â
Since basketball consumed a large chunk of my life, a few coaches, two I got to know a little, while the other I worked for, fit neatly into the larger than life category. I’m speaking of John Wooden, Bob Knight and Jerry Tarkanian, polar opposites (could there be three poles?) in some ways, blood brothers in other areas. Coach Wooden is by far the most respected due to his humility, Christian ways and zillion National Championships. Bob is certainly the louder than the others, but also the most highly principled, while Jerry is the coach’s coach and definitely the most approachable of the three. Each one were big winners and affected the lives of those they coached in such a positive way.
Outside the world of coaching, there was a year at USC that our secretary got a call from former President Ronald Reagan’s office. The caller said that the President was a closet SC fan and after we’d beaten UCLA for the fourth time in five games, he wanted to meet the team. We went to his office in Century City and when you’re standing, shaking hands with the person who, at one time, was the most powerful man in the world, it is quite a humbling experience. No words were allowed to be exchanged at the photo shoot, just walk up, shake hands (first picture), then turn to the camera for the second shot. I still vividly recall that day. Independent of politics, I fully realized I was in the presence of greatness.
Another guy I’ve worked for, although not closely (to him) for the past seven years is Michael Jordan (at his basketball camp in Santa Barbara). An amazing person, he’s the best player who ever put on a basketball uni, yet is also bright and articulate. But what the director of the camp and my former boss, close mentor and mentor, George Raveling (someone who commands a presence himself when he enters a room), MJ looks great no matter what he’s got on. He’ll walk into camp wearing jeans and a t-shirt and looks like royalty (of course the total cost of the jeans and T is probably in the neighborhood of what you and I would spend on a suit - combined.Â
When you work for Jerry Tarkanian, meeting these type of people is like bumping into your dentist at the supermarket, a coincidence, but not that shocking. At the end of the first year with Jerry, there was a “Roast Tark Night” and I served as emcee. There I was, at the head table and who am I kibitzing with but James Caan, when this “fan” (of his, not mine) came up, interrupted the conversation and said, “Hey, James Caan. You know, a lot of people think Sonny Corleone was your best role, but you want to know what I think your best role was?”
Without missing a beat, Caan turns to the guy and casually says, “No,” then turns back and resumes his discussion with me. One of the world’s all-time greatest putdowns - and I was part of it! Without being the guy put down. I did feel bad for the guy (the roast was $125/plate), but he just walked away, probably proud of the fact he was embarrassed by the famous James Caan.
The sweetest, kindest, most “real” guy I ever spent any amount of time with was Walter Payton, another of Tark’s buddies. Jerry tells the story of his secretary at UNLV getting a phone call from “His Sweetness” and putting it through. Sure enough, there was that high pitched voice, telling Jerry how much he enjoyed the Runnin’ Rebels, that he was in town and would Jerry mind if he spoke to the team. Naturally, Tark thought that was a great idea and thus, the beginning of a friendship began.Â
To this day I don’t know why he was in Fresno, but he was and it was during our season. My position as Director of Basketball Operations forbade me from “coaching” so I sat at the end of the bench and would analyze the game in a different manner than I ever had before, a much different outlook on it and it wasn’t before too long I understood why Jerry had me doing it. But the day Walter came in and I had the honor of sitting next to him in the last two seats, I have no idea of the opponent and I’m sure I did an absolutely awful job of evaluating the game. Because it was just a couple hours of chattin’ it up with the greatest running back in the history of the NFL (and I felt this way before I’d ever met him).Â
In previous blogs, I’ve made mention of how much I enjoy listening to books while I’m driving. The one I have in the CD player now is by another “giant,” Ted Turner, and just today I heard a line from him I’ll bet every one of these types agree with.  Ted said: Â
“When I suffer a setback, I don’t think of myself as losing. I’m just learning how to win.”
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